I love J & R too. Their relationship pattern is always get together break up get together...repeat. This last time as with most of the times it was Reva's fault. She did a bunch of things w/o telling or turning to Josh, to include dealing with Johnathan, Menopause and lastly she kept her cancer diagnosis and treatment a secret. When Reva didn't tell Josh about the cancer I lost all respect for her. Although I hate Josh and Cassie together (their relationship makes me want to puke), reva has no one to blame but herself and until she learns her lesson about keeping secrets she dosen't deserve Josh back. It does seeem that Reva has not learned from her mistakes. Reva is doing the same stuff she did w Josh with Jeffrey. Also Josh becoming a preacher all the while keeping paternity secrets and shaging his ex wife sister is a sad sick story. He has picked up a few tricks from Reva about lying and hooking up with family members. I can't belive he kept his preaching job.

I wish Josh and Reva would get back together. Even when they are not together, they seem like a couple when they talk to each other. There is a genuine relationship with them. I hate to bash people, but I hate Cassie with Josh. I wish they would switch back and put Cassie with Jeffery. Reva has 'adult relationships' with both Josh and Jeffery, but Cassie is such a whiner and needs to grow up or something. She just doesn't work well with Josh. I don't feel 'love' with them. Josh is just the latest person to take care of her. Reva can take care of herself, but LOVES so completely whether it is Josh or Jeffery. I just don't believe it with Cassie or why anyone would love her. I think they really feel sorry for her and want to take care of her. That's not love.

I agree - Josh and Reva were my favorite couple, too, and never should have split up. When she didn't tell him about her cancer she was doing that for him. He normally would have appreciated that she was trying to do a selfless thing, but he has changed too much. Don't they realize that it would have been easier for her to go through if he had been there for her? She wanted him there but was trying to do what was best for him. And I hate that he is with Cassie - that just makes me sick. The whole minister thing is totally ridiculous. Do you know how long it takes to REALLY become a minister (?)- years and years. Not just, "I've decided to be a minister", and then two weeks later, you're a minister. Give me a break! It's not like deciding to work at McDonalds.

Reva and Josh were having problems and almost divorced but then they tore up the papers. Then Reva left to visit Marah. She came back to find out she had breast cancer. She wanted to tell Josh but he was working on the veterans hospital so she thought she would take care of it and tell him later so he wouldn't give up his project. But things continued to get worse and she left to get treatment.
Josh and Cassie felt that she had hurt them and they'd been growing feelings for each other and started dating.
Reva returned and to find them as a couple. She decided that if she was gonna die then let them be together so she divorced him, but she lived and they wanted to stay together.
Now she's with Jeffrey. I don't think she'll get back with Josh anytmie soon.

I to love Josh and Reva! I 'am so wary of the Reva/Jeffery stuff! I've watched Josh/Reva since they have been a couple. I do believe that they will find their way back to each other. . . its just taking a LONGER time! I want to see them back together and soon!

Totaly doesn't make sense! Plus, ever since they returned Will, Cassie's been acting even more of a capital b!